My Birthday

Hi!!

Birthdays are the one time a year when cake, chocolate and macaroons have no calories.

 It's the day when you get to choose exactly what you want to do, and you get to be the queen (or king) for the day.

The day when you can wear exactly what you want no matter where you are or what you are doing. Hey, if you want to wear a sparkly dress all day during your bday, even if its just to go get a burger, go for it. I would. 

It's also important to remember to take some time and think about your life. Think about the blessings you have received, the choices you have made, and the pat you find yourself in. Where are your headed? Are you happy? What can you change that would improve your life?

Sure, it is great to received gifts and get lost in the material things birthdays bring us, but birthdays should also be a day when we reflect on our life, give thanks for what we have, and adjust depending on what we want to do with our lives. 

Last year when I turned 25 I was a little bit sad. I thought "wow 25" that's very close to 30, but after a couple days that feeling faded. This year, as I turn 26 I don't find myself depressed, I find myself terrified! 30 feels like its just around the corner! There is so much I want to do and I feel there is just not enough time. For example, I have no plans to get married soon, but even that is putting a little bit of pressure I have to admit. Am I expected to get married before I turn 30? What if I don't get married before 30? Just thinking about all the things I want to accomplish, things I feel I am expected to do and things I feel I still have to experience just freak me out. 

Time just seems to fly and I guess what scares me the most is that it might just slip away. Having a crazy schedule, dealing with daily life sometimes makes you forget the important things, and you end up worrying about all the wrong things, wasting time and just letting it slip away. 

This year I want to focus on what I want to do with my life and make sure I am in the right path. I know it won't happen in a few days, it is a process, but this year I want to have the right attitude, remembering that time is precious and every minute is unique. Not one minute in our lives has a replacement; they all have an expiration date and when those 60 seconds are over, that minute s gone forever. 

Anyway.... after this little ramble, to lift up the spirits, I want to share my birthday outfit. 

My birthday started with a French theme breakfast which my adorable and loving mom surprised me with., She decorated everything and had the most adorable breakfast table ready for when I woke up. I was filled with croissants, truffles, macaroons, mimosas and cake!

After that delicious start to my day we went to a little town called Gruene, about 45 minutes away from San Antonio. We walked around the cute little shops and had lunch at the Gristmill restaurant by the river, where they have some amazing BBQ ribs!!!

I wanted to wear something very girly but comfortable for walking around the town.

her's what I wore:

AB

OOTD - Print Pants & a Fluffy Dog

Hi!!

If you live in Texas you know these months are all about the crazy weather!

One day it's freezing, the next feels like summer is just around the corner, and some days are just gloomy and wet. It makes it a little hard to figure out what to wear in the morning because you really never know what the day will bring. 

I wanted to share my ootd with you to give you some more ideas of outfits you can wear during these days. It is a very simple outfit but I feel like it makes you look effortlessly stylish and put together. During the week I use variations of this outfit a lot for work. Lately I have been loving print pants. They are just so much fun and unique. Your outfit can be so simple but just the print makes it look so much more elaborate. 

I am wearing a simple dark blue turtle neck from Gap and my funny-looks-like-a-tablecloth print pants also from Gap. If you have not experimented with print pants before and are looking to try them go to Gap. I am a fan of their pants; I feel they fit my butt just right and they are so comfy. They have new prints all the time. I really recommend them.

I used my Tory Burch golden flats, my simple everyday gold jewelry and my new acquisition (and obsession)... my CH red handbag. 

BTW this is Lucy, my best friend and confidant. Shes my style adviser most days ;P

Lucy, or Lucifer some days, loves to swim almost everyday, chase pointlessly after squirrels, eat every minute of the day and watch movies. She had a bath four days ago and she's filthy already! I guess she just likes to be smelly.... shes a tomboy ;)

AB

OOTD - Casual Friday!

Hi!!

Happy Friday!!! 

It's been a looooOOOOOnng week for me and I cannot tell you enough how excited I am for the weekend. Nothing special planned but just looking forward to some relaxing time, movies, and an epic cheat meal.... I'll keep you posted.

Anyways... Today I wanted to share more details about my OOTD. I know most people look forward to "casual Friday" but I just think this term is misunderstood so much. A lot of people think this means you get to wear baggy jeans and an old over-sized t-shirt you got for free at some event. No people, it does not mean you get to wear cloths like you are lounging or cleaning up your house. During these days you can be a lot more comfy but still keeping your style and looking put together. If you want to wear jeans, make sure they are nice jeans and you pair them with a nice top and shoes. Casual Friday is really more like a day when you are allowed a more casual everyday look but still looking professional. I will work on a post with more casual Friday ideas.

OK now that I got that out of my chest (haha) here is an outfit idea for a casual Friday:

1. Black sweater dress with a small cowl neck 

2. Loose black sweater with flower details; the dress is short sleeve and my office is super cold

3. Black tights; try to buy really opaque tights, they look a lot better. My favorite are Spanx tights not only because they make your butt look better, which everyone can benefit from, but they don't roll down like a lot of other brands or dig into your stomach. 

4. Over-the-knee slouchy black boots. 

This all black outfit is so comfy, but still look stylish and you look put together. I decided just to leave my hair naturally straight to give it a more casual vibe, and accessorize with small pear earring. For makeup I did a simple, thin cat-eye black liner and burgundy lips (which I love right now)

I hope this outfit inspires you to dig around your closet and create more casual Friday looks. 

AB

Back to school OOTD

Hi!!!!

I hope you are all having a wonderful week so far. Me... I'm still trying to get used to my routine again after the Christmas break. But I better get used to it again and soon because today....

I GO BACK TO SCHOOL!

I graduated from college in May 2012 and told myself I would give myself a year before starting my masters degree. Well, that one year turned into two and a half. I have no idea how, time just flew by! There is never enough time to do things don't you think?! Personally I think days should last 48 hours hahaha. So, finally, today I am going back. Since I work full-time I will take it a little slower. I am a person who actually enjoys school (yes, I am a nerd); I have no problem with studying but I fear that sitting in a classroom from 6:00 - 9:00 pm after working all day will be hard; I think some extra cups of coffee will be needed. I already drink a lot of coffee so we'll see how that goes- can you overdose on caffeine? I'm pretty sure you can right?

My undergrad was in fashion merchandising with a minor in marketing and a minor in business. I will now be pursuing an MA in Communication Arts. I really enjoy writing, that's one of the main reason why I chose this program. PR, marketing, advertising and event management are my forte and I have plenty of experience in it so I think this program will complement this experience well. 

Of course such a day like today calls for a great outfit. I wanted something comfortable, classy and chic. I don't know if I nailed it but I liked my overall look. 

I decided to go for a very puffy, black and white striped skirt, a classic long sleeve black shirt, opaque black tights, a simple winter white coat and my new French Connection heels. These heels are so comfortable for a long day but when you still want to be stylish. I am so glad pointy heels are back. I think they can add so much to a look. 

For accessories I decided to wear my chunky gold necklace (which I wear so much), a sparkly crossed ring, my everyday pearl ring (almost never go without it), a Kate Spade creme and gold bangle with a bow, and finally my bow from Kate Spade.

For my makeup I went with a classic look: black cat eyeliner and red lips. I think that when you are wearing a classic , almost all black outfit, you can never go wrong with this look. I has done my nails in black a couple days before so it worked out perfectly. 

Now all is need is a pretty pen, a gorgeous notebook....

 and maybe a new handbag (hahaha always an excuse) 

I will let you know how my first day goes!

Wish me luck!

AB